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I love anal sex. Does that make me gay?
Michael7771
I absolutely adore anal sex. I only ever obtain and not interested in giving at all.
I have had sex with men several times but being married it's not always simple. I now exploit the Renegade Meat Monster dildo off Lovehoney for my main pleasure. I can get around ten inches up and love the deep full feeling it gives me. Problem is I just feel that I want some form of anal all the period. I also relax giving men oral if I ever get chance.
As I said I'm married and love my wife. I don't fancy men I do prefer women but I believe I get more pleasure from anal sex than sex with my wife.
I usually portray myself as bi sexual but I'm not sure if that's accurate or if in evidence I'm gay and daren"t admit it. I would actually like regular sex with a regular male partner if I could ever sort that.
Any thoughts?
Eager-2-Please2
The way I see it, you can relish any kind of sensation/pleasure with very little or no attached gender/sexuality to it.
Liking anal sex does not, in and of itself, make you gay. Liking and wanting sex with the same gender does make you gay, however.
You said that you love your wife and pr
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I’m scared of bottoming
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