I've always received a ton of attention from gay men without even inquiring it out at all. Whenever I see a gay dude (IE clearly gay) in some sort of social gathering, he nearly always hits on me and compliments me up and down a 100 times. On the flip side, I receive very small attention like that from women - and it's usually women who I don't find attractive at all. I'm not even talking about getting approached, just any signs of interest would be great and I can't recollect the last second I had a cute girl who clearly wanted to talk to me. The last not many women who were crazy over me were just not attractive at all
Why is this? I look very masculine, have a deep voice and generally masculine mannerisms so I understand they don't deliberate I am lgbtq+ (not that same-sex attracted men can't be masculine but I don't have any gay "traits")
What would cause a straight man to be very attractive to gay men but not unbent women?
01-21-2014, 01:56 PM
Location: Pittsburgh
Why do male lover guys keep hitting on me?
What's with the homosexual man trying to fuck the unbent man? I imply, I understand the fantasy element to a degree, but the persistence almost makes me wanna beat some ass. Not in a sexual fashion, of course.
— Tired of It
Dear Homo,
I hate to interlude this to you, but gay guys don't hit on another guy unless they think he's gay or bi. I'm thinking maybe your friends grasp something you don't.
Here's what happens when we same-sex attracted guys meet a straight guy who turns us on: We try to get to comprehend him and figure out if he's closeted or bi without coming on to him. We're not overt for obvious reasons: 1) We might obtain the wrong compassionate of pounding; 2) We might destroy our chances if he's a closet case who wigs out; and 3) We set ourselves up for an extremely awkward or humiliating experience if we're wrong about his orientation.
So, we look for certain signals during a conversation — does he carry eye contact longer than usual? Does he have a girlfriend or wife? Does he deliver up women? Is he giving off a sexual vibe? Does he appear personally interested in what you're saying? Does he come across interested, period? If we perceive him to be unbent, we don't g
Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to gay guys
Unread postby Sam W »
Got it, so it does sound like a big part of this simply has to carry out with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you locate attractive.
When you desire to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be able to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you speak this happens when you spot cute gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who look a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you see these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to assess about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific organization (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.
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hi, i wanted to launch that I never expect my self looking for this specific theme. but I see that maybe can help you and me.
I have a similar situation with my affair . My boyfriends gay partner is inLove with him and he doesn’t understand that. there is so many things that produce me realize that.
1 they see each other once a week to liquor in a bar, when they do and earn drunk, my boyfriends queer friend starts complementing him in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in love eyes. start making inappropriate joke
2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying DOESNT HE LOOK LIKE HIM???
3 he told my lover that he heard that i was dating one of his friends a couple of times( guy that I don’t even know). obviously lies.. don’t know what was exactly his intention.
4 he invited my boyfriend first to an island and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my lover didn’t go.
5 he always pays for everything, dinner, uber, all the cocktail in the bar ( mos